Secondary Virginity is a fresh start for you if you've already had sex. It means, no more sex 'til marriage.
Even though you cannot physically become a virgin again, sex is way more than just a physical act. You know what it feels like to hurt, to have regrets, to have a broken heart, to be humiliated, or to lose respect for yourself.
To protect your emotions, mind, and spirit, you can make a new, fresh start and move into sexual freedom! Sound good to you?
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Will this be easy?
Probably not. But remember, most important, things aren't easy to do. You've already found out that the "easy" path is not really easy either.
Choosing secondary virginity may mean setting new boundaries with your boy/girlfriend. Setting and holding new boundaries will take creativity and effort. Think of new things to do, places to go, people to hang out with. And stay away from alcohol and drugs. They're a sure way for you to lose control.
What's next?
Stop having sex - now.
If you have had sex, even once, you are at risk for a sexually transmitted disease. Make an appointment with your doctor.
If you are pregnant or think you may be, call Muskegon Pregnancy Services at (231) 726-2677.
If you've already had a baby, make sure you don't give him or her a brother or sister until after you're married.
If you have had an abortion, through Secondary Virginity you can avoid the pain of having another one.
The decision is yours. You may think, "I've already blown it. There's no point in me even thinking about 'saving myself' for my future spouse." But there is hope. Today, you can choose Secondary Virginity - a fresh start! Make the Pledge to be abstinent!
An Important Step
Tell your friends, family, pastor, or counselor about your decision. They will respect you for choosing this rough road and going against your sex-crazed culture. They can help you stay strong when you are tempted to break your pledge.
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